TreeTalk Virtual Treehouse

When Your Job Starts Feeling Like Survival Mode Toxic work environments, emotional leadership, power trips, and why documentation matters There’s a difference between having a difficult day at work and working in an environment where you constantly feel like you have to protect yourself. You know the feeling. Before you send an email, you reread it five times. Before you speak in a meeting, you wonder how your manager is going to take it. You see their name pop up on your phone and immediately think, “What now?” You start keeping conversations short because you don’t know which version of your manager you’re going to get that day. And somewhere along the way, you stopped focusing on doing your job well and started focusing on not getting in trouble. That deserves attention. When leadership becomes emotional. Managers are human. They’re allowed to have emotions, bad days, stress, frustration, and even disagreements with employees. The problem begins when employees become responsible for...

“I’m Self-Aware… So Why Am I Still Doing the Same Stuff?” There is a very frustrating stage of healing where you know exactly what you’re doing…and you still do it. You know you shut down when you’re upset. You know you overthink. You know you keep going back to the same type of relationship with the same end result. You know you people-please. You know you avoid difficult conversations. And sometimes that awareness makes it even more frustrating because you start thinking, “I know better. Why am I still going through the same things?” A little hint for life self-awareness and behavior change are two different stages of healing. Awareness says, “I recognize my pattern.” Change says, “I’m learning how to respond differently when that pattern gets triggered.” Change takes practice and self grace.  Many of our patterns developed because, at some point, they worked for us. Avoiding conflict may have kept the peace. People-pleasing may have helped you feel accepted. Shutting down may ha...

Hey yall!  Have you ever had a person or even caught yourself saying "I dont need therapy theres nothing wrong with me."  I find that  alot of people wait until life is on FIRE before even considering therapy. The relationship is falling apart, anxiety is unbearable, work is overwhelming, grief has become difficult to manage, and here you are completely burned out. Now therapy becomes the emergency room. What if therapy could also be maintenance? You don’t have to be in crisis or have gone through a traumatic past to benefit from having a space dedicated to understanding yourself. See that's what therapy boils down to no matter the style or therapist, its ALL ABOUT YOU and FINDING YOU! Therapy can be where you learn your patterns before they become problems. Where you improve communication before the relationship reaches its breaking point. Where you process stress before burnout. Where you learn boundaries. Where you explore who you’re becoming. Where you make healthier ...

When someone you love tells you they’re struggling with suicidal thoughts, it can be terrifying. You may immediately start thinking: What am I supposed to say? What if I say the wrong thing? Should I leave them alone? Do I need to watch them all the time? What if something happens and I could have prevented it? Whether it’s your sibling, friend, partner, child, parent, coworker, or someone else you care about, supporting someone through suicidal thoughts can feel like an enormous responsibility. There is something important I want you to remember: You can be part of someone’s support system without becoming their entire safety system. 1. Listen Before You Try to Fix It Sometimes our first instinct is to make the person feel better. “Everything is going to be okay.” “Don’t think like that.” “You have so much to live for.” “But look at all the people who love you.” Those statements usually come from love, but someone experiencing suicidal thoughts may need something different first: a sa...

  Welcome to the TreeTalk Virtual Treehouse 🌳 A place to talk, learn, reflect, and grow. Hey, y’all! I’m Christin N. Dickinson, a Licensed Professional Counselor and the founder of TreeTalk, PLLC. And I want to officially welcome you to the TreeTalk Virtual Treehouse. When I created TreeTalk, I wanted mental health conversations to feel different. I wanted to create spaces where people could learn about themselves, ask questions, challenge unhealthy patterns, and talk about the things we sometimes don’t know how to talk about. The Virtual Treehouse is an extension of that vision. So, what is the Virtual Treehouse? Think about an actual treehouse. It’s a place you climb into, get comfortable, talk, think, laugh, learn, and sometimes just get away from everything happening on the ground. That’s what I want this space to become, just virtually. Here, we’re going to talk about real mental health in real life. We may talk about anxiety and depression one week and...